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Monday, February 6, 2017

“This is a lonely place…” A meditation on Matthew 14:13-21 and the loneliness of the Christian call.



“Now when Jesus heard this, he withdrew from there in a boat to a lonely place apart. But when the crowds heard it, they followed him on foot from the towns. As he went ashore he saw a great throng; and he had compassion on them, and healed their sick. When it was evening, the disciples came to him and said, “This is a lonely place, and the day is now over; send the crowds away to go into the villages and buy food for themselves.” Jesus said, “They need not go away; you give them something to eat.” They said to him, “We have only five loaves here and two fish.” And he said, “Bring them here to me.” Then he ordered the crowds to sit down on the grass; and taking the five loaves and the two fish he looked up to heaven, and blessed, and broke and gave the loaves to the disciples, and the disciples gave them to the crowds. And they all ate and were satisfied. And they took up twelve baskets full of the broken pieces left over. And those who ate were about five thousand men, besides women and children.” 
 --Matthew 14: 13-21


This is a lonely place.
How often do Christians everywhere, every day feel that? Sense it? I would imagine that even within the walls of the Vatican or some sacred monastery or convent the bitter truth of the disciple’s words are daily affirmed.  This is a lonely place.  To live for Christ yet still live in the world is a lonely place. A vulnerable place.
                To seek after Christ with your whole heart and soul is a lonely place, because the world does not approve, the world does not affirm, and sadly the world may hardly even take note of such a life.  And what is it Christ demands that makes following Him such a lonely life?  Only that we forsake home and family, even our very self, and follow Him.  And yet there is (paradoxically) so much more to this “lonely place” than simply misery and loneliness.  And it seems to me that in this passage from Matthew Jesus is revealing to the disciples the fullness of His request –the mysterious fullness of His request, of this lonely place.  So, let us look again at the story itself.
                After learning of the death of John the Baptist, Jesus withdraws to a lonely place, seemingly to be alone.  However, the crowds of people who have been following Him, follow Him there also. And when they do, He spends the day teaching and healing them. But as the day comes to an end, the apostles realize that the darkness will find the people in a very vulnerable position. They are out in a deserted place, a lonely place, where there is no comfort, there are no amenities, there is no Cracker Barrel or Buc-EEs, no 24 hour rest stops. The disciples realize that the people have followed Jesus into a deserted and lonely and vulnerable place and so they –out of compassion for the people—ask Jesus to send the people away. Send them back to civilization where they can find food and shelter and a gift shop!
                Seen in the light of today’s church, the disciples are asking Jesus to not be quite so demanding.  They are asking Him to loosen up on the people, go a little easier on them; to send them away from this place of sacrifice and let them return to a place where there are comforts and sustenance –because this kind of sacrifice is asking too much of the people –too much from their weakness.
                But Jesus says to them: No. Don’t send them away. Let them stay and you guys feed them yourselves.
                But we can’t. By golly, we don’t even have enough food to sustain ourselves! How can we take care of this multitude (over 5000)?
                Bring me what you have, the Lord tells them. And have the people sit down –to stay put, to remain faithful even when the world seems lonely—and I will show you how this works.  He takes the meager offering that the disciples have to give (5 loaves and 2 fish) and He offers a blessing and breaks the bread and tells the disciples to share it with the people. And suddenly, miraculously, there is enough. More than enough –with overflowing abundance left over.
                What is the lesson here? The pastoral lesson?
                First, that following Jesus is sometimes a very lonely place to live. He asks a lot from us –in fact He asks everything.  And the world has no place for all that kind of junk, or mushy love your enemy turn the other cheek or pluck out your eye kind of stuff.  And the world doesn’t like the Cross or the challenge presented by a life of faith. The world, even those who love us –our family and friends; by golly even the ministers of Christ’s church will too often tell us: be realistic! This is a lonely place. This place, this LIFE of giving up everything to follow Christ is a lonely place. Why don’t you go back to the real world where you can get a good cup of coffee and they have A/C and free wifi and a comfortable place to lay your head. Just put down that cross for a few hours and have a beer and watch some TV or read some Facebook posts or tweet some Twitters.  You don’t always have to be SO faithful!  Take a break –ease up. You can follow Jesus tomorrow! Or later in the week. Heck, just follow Jesus most of the time, but if it gets too challenging or makes people uncomfortable or requires real and ongoing sacrifice –then maybe you should ease up and go back to the city where you can find food and shelter and people will accept you.  This is a lonely place; so why don’t you go back to the place in your life where it wasn’t so lonely.
                Second, Jesus is teaching the disciples that if they trust Him –trust Him fully—this lonely place can be transformed.  If they trust Him fully, give themselves to Him completely, this lonely place will become a garden overflowing with plenty –a land of milk and honey… or bread and fishes (if you will).
                Trust Jesus and let the community find itself by following Him –even when it gets hard and feels lonely—and He will bring great things out of their midst.  Is it possible that the miracle of the loaves and fishes involves the people simply sharing with each other from the supplies that they brought with them (unbeknownst to the apostles)?  Yes. I think that could fit right in with the way Christ works.  It seems to me, that He constantly brings forth from our gifts (what we have, what we give completely to Him) a glorious plenty that can sustain multitudes. We must trust Him completely; we must give ourselves completely –give our gifts completely. Surrender ourselves fully to Him.  Follow Him completely and always –even when He leads us to a lonely place.  To witness the miracle we have to trust God completely. We have to give ourselves to Him completely. God never imposes Himself upon us.  As the Gospel says: Your faith has healed you; Your faith has made you whole (cf. Mt 9:22; Mk 5:34; Lk 17:19, etc).
                Let us be faithful
                Let us be whole
                Let us give ourselves completely, that this lonely place may come to life and overflow abundantly with life giving gifts and become not a lonely place but a garden verdant and green where we can walk with God –following Him completely.  And by losing ourselves completely, discover that we are never truly alone.
               

Saturday, January 21, 2017

The Good Samaritan & the Christmas Card


“A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among robbers, and they stripped him 
and beat him, and went away leaving him half dead.  And by chance a priest was going down on 
that road, and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. Likewise a Levite also, when he came 
to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, who was on a journey, 
came upon him; and when he saw him, he felt compassion, and came to him and bandaged up his 
wounds, pouring oil and wine on them; and he put him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn 
and took care of him. On the next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper and 
said, ‘Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, when I return I will repay you.’
--Luke 10:30-35

(This is a passage from a book I am writing. Fr. Leo is an elderly priest at a small inner-city parish.  And he is on the edge of retirement and some of his parishioners whisper that maybe he should have already retired many years ago. But, he carries on quietly and tenderly and awkwardly loving his flock and trying his best to serve them. He is a minor character in the book, but I was having fun with this homily and wanted to share it. I think it fits in with my meditations so far.)

      Fr. Leo closed the gospel and looked at the red leathered cover with the gold embossing. He touched it; lingered his fingers in the indentation of the cross. Perhaps he should shut up, he thought. Looking at the pews he nodded to himself: Yes. Perhaps I should. He sighed, and began to step away from the ambo. But something occurred to him. And he felt a need to just say this one thing. So, he paused in his reticent retreat and turned back. Opening the Gospel again, he smiled—embarrassed. “I thought about not speaking this morning. The Gospel; the parable itself saying so much. What could I add? Why should I try? But… like most priests, I guess I like to muddy the waters.” He laughed.

Margaret smiled politely. Henry nodded and smiled. There were a few polite snickers.

“Nevertheless, I had to say this, because it’s July and the other day I was thinking about Christmas. Like that old Preston Sturges movie: Christmas in July. I think it starred Dick Powell. And who was the woman? I can’t remember. But I remember Powell. I remember him more from the radio. He played Richard Diamond on the radio: the crooning detective. Oh, the memories that can come haunt you. Don’t you know. And they do. As you get older. Right Margaret? I mean, not that you’re old. Oh dear. Never. Oh dear. I didn’t. Anyway. Anyway. I was thinking about Christmas. In July. Isn’t that strange? It sounds strange. To me, at least. But it all started because I found an old flyer on the side of my refrigerator. For the Knights of Columbus; the Friday Fish Fry. During Lent. I was having lunch in the rectory and while my tomato soup was warming up I thought I would clear off some of the old paperwork taped to the refrigerator. So full. Oh, you wouldn’t believe.” He glanced around the church with a sly smile on his lips. “Of course, none of you know what I’m talking about. Right? You don’t have old notes and flyers and artwork taped to your refrigerator? Do you?”

He smiled and waited.

“Of course not. That’s just us old guys.” He glanced at Margaret, but judging by the look in her eyes he realized he should exempt her from any further references. “Well… So, here it is the middle of summer and I am just now removing the Lenten Fish Fry notice off the refrigerator. But, if you think that’s bad, let me tell you. This is the bad part. Beneath the flyer there was a Christmas card. I guess I forgot about it or I was saving it. Who knows. I’m old.” He laughed. No one else did. Except a polite chuckle from the back. Shaking his head, Father began again:

“Feeling a little foolish, I took it off. It was one of those –you know—one of those inexpensive cards. Not even a Hallmark. But I like Christmas cards. I always have. Even the cheap ones. I like the pictures. I like the sentiments. I guess I’m a sentimental kind of guy. Right?”

He shrugged his shoulders and smiled shyly. “The way my voice is always breaking and I’m always tearing up. You know. You’ve seen it. Sometimes it just comes over me and even I think: Oh dear. Here you go again… you old fool!” He took out a handkerchief. “I’m just going to blow my nose. Allergies. I guess…” He blew his nose with a muffled snort into the cloth and then refolded it and put it back into his pocket.

“So… this card. I don’t want to say it was a cheap card. In case someone is here who sent it. But, I will say it was a budget card. Nothing fancy at all. The front of it was a manger scene with the Joseph and Mary and the baby and a cow and a… maybe a sheep and a star. Mostly blue. Night sky and the glow coming from the baby. You know. Very standard. Very sentimental, I guess. The kind of thing that normally appeals to me. So at first I thought that maybe I just kept the card because I liked it. There was that manger and the straw and Mary and Joseph and that little baby with His hands reaching out. I looked at the picture for a moment, and I thought about Christmas and I thought about that stack of thank you notes I still haven’t written. I think I have until November to send them. Right? Anyway, after looking at the card I dropped it into the recycle bin. But, you know how that goes: after a minute, I had to pick it back up and find out who it was from. Why had I saved it? Maybe it was something important. A special note or something. Sentimental. Maybe.” Again he laughed. Alone. “It was from the Pilgrim Cleaners on Washington. I’ve been taking my suits there for over ten years. So… I don’t know. Maybe it was sentimental.” A few people laughed at that. He smiled and shrugged his shoulders tentatively.

“But, here’s the thing. I’d been thinking about this reading. Preparing for it. The Good Samaritan. And thinking about the –I don’t know—the traditional way of reading it. The way we are used to thinking about it. Augustine. The allegorical reading we all know.” He adjusted his glasses and squinted. Looked down at the opened Gospel on the ambo, then coughed.

“Dear me. Some of you may even be saying to yourself –what’s an allegorical reading. But even if you don’t remember what an allegory is, you know it. Everybody has heard someone preach it. And because it is such a familiar story and such a familiar understanding of the story, we don’t really pay attention anymore. It’s like the power of the parable to challenge us has been tamed. If we can wrap it all up with a bow, like a Christmas fruit cake or something, then there’s nothing in it to challenge us any longer, because –like that Christmas card –it’s become kind of a cliché. Think about it. This parable, how many times have you heard it?”

He paused to let people think for a moment. “Yes. Yes. We know it so well, we are so familiar with it; we don’t really hear it anymore. It’s become safe and settled; like a mathematical equation. This equals this. The Samaritan equals God. The wounded man represents our sinful states. The Levite and the judge equal the religious authorities and the law –or the government. Neither one seems to do very well, I might point out. The donkey becomes the incarnation –the fleshly presence of God in the form of Jesus Christ. The Inn is the Church where sinful man comes to be refreshed and healed with oil and wine –which are the sacraments. You see… It’s all very simple. It’s all very mathematical. Not that I would know anything about math. Right? You should see my check book. Or the parish accounts… No. No. Just joking. Please. Don’t write the Bishop.” 

He laughed. A few polite responses came from the pews.

“But here is what I am trying to say. Here is what I meant to say and then I will sit down and shut up. I took that sentimental card out of the recycling and looked at it, without really thinking about it. It was just your normal, standard baby Jesus and manger with Mary and Joseph there smiling and looking like they just came from the beauty salon. They are gazing down on their new baby with awe and joy. Lots of radiance and glowing and just a hint of a breeze in their freshly washed hair and their perfectly clean robes and scarves. Even the shepherd and the sheep look like they just stepped out of a spa or something. Very Hollywood looking. And I was about to throw it away again when something caught my eye. The naked hand of the baby Jesus reaching out of the manger to His blessed Mother, and for some reason that hand struck me. Even after I put the card back in the trash, I thought about that naked hand and how vulnerable and helpless it was. How helpless and naked and vulnerable all babies are. They need to be cared for –completely. And I thought of Mary and Joseph there, watching over Him. Not the Hallmark card versions or the Hollywood versions, but the real ones. Mary and Joseph. Taking care of Him. Changing His diapers and kissing his boo boos. And thinking about that, thinking about all of that, I started to realize something. I realized something strange that had never occurred to me before; every time we hear this story, you know who we are called to be like: the Samaritan. Right? And yet who did Jesus become? He became the wounded man, naked and helpless and alone in the world. That’s how he came to us. He came to us as that little baby in the manger. He came to us helpless and naked and in need of someone to pick Him up, someone to give Him shelter and to give Him love. Do you see it? Think about that. What does that mean to you personally? What does this parable say to you now? For me, what I learned was that sometimes the gift we bring is our strength and sometimes our gift is our weakness. Sometimes the best gift we have to offer is our weakness, our vulnerability. Our need for help. Because your weakness is a chance for me to step away from my Shredded Wheat and coffee and help you. It’s a chance for me to become the saint God made me to be. So, don’t be afraid to be weak. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Jesus was weak. Jesus was vulnerable. He even cried out from the cross. The next time you are feeling weak and vulnerable, remember: that may be how God is calling you to become more like Christ. And it could be that God is using your weakness to plant seeds and grow saints in the people around you.

See… that parable isn’t so simple after all, is it. The next time you hear one of these old familiar stories, don’t just nod your head and think: Oh, I know that one. I’ve already heard that one. No. No. No. Ask yourself: what is God trying to say to me, right here, right now? What is God speaking to me? Maybe He’s asking you to be the Samaritan and help someone who is wounded and hurt and needs your care. Or maybe God is asking you to be the vulnerable one who needs help. Maybe He’s asking you to be carry the cross, or maybe God is asking you to be an opportunity for someone else to carry His cross; And maybe God is telling you that to become like Christ, to become Christ for others… all that is being asked is that you become like that man on the road to Jerusalem or like that baby in that manger on that card: weak and vulnerable, in need of help –naked to the world. Reach out your hand in need and see what happens. You know. Even if no one helps you, you don’t know. You won’t know. You can’t know how much you may have helped them. Maybe even the memory of seeing you so vulnerable, so willing to ask for help… That simple memory may haunt them –in a good way. And maybe that’s how God planted His seed in their heart. Memories. Christmas cards. And weakness. I don’t know. Maybe I shouldn’t have said anything. I don’t know. That’s all."

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Reaping Where You Haven’t Sowed: The Parable of the Talents

(Matthew 25: 14-30)


“Sir, I had heard that you were a hard man, reaping where you had not sown
and gathering where you had not scattered…”
  --Matthew 25:24b

This is another passage that has always frightened me –always troubled me; I relate to the poor servant who has heard and believed that the master is ruthless and hard.  He panics when the master gives him the single talent and does what seems to him most prudent: he hides it in order to protect the master’s money –so that it can be safely returned to him when called for.  He avoids the risk of investment that the other two servants undertake, because in his heart he fears the master will take payment out of his hide if he loses the money.
So, he acts in what must have seemed a prudent way and is able to return the master’s money safely to him.  But, the master challenges this approach –this caution—and the servant is punished anway.
One thing I am troubled by when dealing with parables, when studying the teachings of Jesus in general, is the rush to allegorize or spiritualize everything.  The rush to disengage from the actual and make everything neat and tidy by turning it all immediately into symbols and a simple lesson; dismissing complications in order to create an easily digested lesson.
Of course a lesson is there, that was part of His mission –to teach us—but I like to remind myself: don’t be in such a rush to sum it up. To package it with a bow.  Don’t be in such a rush to make everything clear and simple and safe.  Spend some time with the actuality of His words.   Remember what He said about why He taught in parables:
“Therefore I speak to them in parables; because while seeing they do not see, and while hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand.” –Matthew 13: 13
Clearly Jesus is using parables not because they are the clearest form of communication, but for another reason –perhaps their staying power: the memorable nature of a brief, simple, narrative with a couple of memorable characters makes parables easy to remember and therefore easily transmittable by an oral culture.
But, for me, this speaks to an intent not to be clear and simple –but to be a little bit mysterious and definitely not to be afraid of being a little confusing.  So, I have to often remind myself: Don’t be in a rush to make everything clear and simple and safe.  Spend some time with the mystery, with the actuality of Jesus’s words. 
Spend some time with the actual of the story; contemplate the actual events, characters, images He chose.  Contemplate the whole of it –or find yourself one little troubling verse or line or word –even—and spend some time with it.  Don’t try to make it make sense. Don’t try to force an answer to appear before your eyes.  Just let yourself be a little troubled and maybe a little agitated.  Let the seed of that truth work its way into your soul, your mind, your heart. Inside you.
In this parable the master never denies what the servant says –that he is a hard master, and he never denies that he reaps where he has not sown.  He simply repeats to the servant what he has said.  Why?
Spend some time today with that master; with that servant. Why did Jesus use these two characters? Why did He tell His followers this particular story? And why did He use it to create an image of the Kingdom of God?  And –perhaps most importantly—why is He telling it to you, now, over 2000 years later?
Don’t rush to clarify it. Don’t rush to make sense.  Don’t bury the word in a mound of scholarship and footnotes and academic theological interpretations.  Those have value, and may help you at some point.  But first, just spend some time with that hard image, with that hard master, and see where God leads you.  Let God plant His seed in your silence, so that you can reap what He has sown.